Relationship and Marriage Counselling in Surrey

                  Communication issues       Conflicting views       Constant arguments

Haslemere, Wisborough Green, Godalming, Farnham and Lower Faringdon

I am a Relationship Counsellor with over 21 years experience. I have worked with many couples and I am experienced in working with many different relational issues. I enjoy a private practice as well as working with other agencies.

I also have 16 years experience working with Couples in Domestic Abuse situations. I work relationally with couples. Relational therapy is a therapeutic approach based on the idea that mutually satisfying relationships with others are necessary for a person’s emotional well-being.

This type of psychotherapy takes into account social factors, such as race, class, culture, and gender, and examines the power struggles and other issues that develop as a result of these factors, as well as how they relate to the relationships in a person’s life.

I provide a safe place for couples to explore and address all aspects of their relationship, with a view to making beneficial changes and creating an arena which is uniquely customised to both the couples needs. One of the main areas of difficulty in many relationships is communication. I will support couples both to develop their communication so that they can relate more effectively with each other.

Together couples can explore their relationship dynamics in order to identify where unhelpful patterns may have evolved. Relationships can struggle to grow when significant emotional, physical and/or sexual needs are not being met, or there is lack of intimacy or trust.

Redhill, East Grinstead, Epsom, Reigate and Leatherhead

South Godstone, Tadworth, Hartfield and Warlingham 

I am a Qualified Integrative Counsellor/ Therapist, which means I am trained in many theoretical approaches and can tailor your relationship therapy to the style which best suits both of you and your needs.

I believe that to get the most out of counselling, it is important to choose a therapist that is right for you. For it to be successful, you will need to find someone you can connect with and feel comfortable and secure opening up to. You will need to feel you can discuss your feelings, in confidence, without being judged.

I deal with many issues, including relationship issues, separation, divorce, sexual abuse and domestic abuse and living with partners or family members with drug and alcohol addiction.

Guildford, Chertsey, Sunningdale, Fleet and Plaistow

I am an experienced counsellor having worked with many couples and individuals on a wide variety of problems and issues.

When relationships are working well, life is good and problems are few. When there is breakdown, life gets hard and problems increase. My job as a relational therapist is to help explore, in order to better understand and identify areas that need to be addressed.

Some of the broader areas I have explored to date include: betrayal ( affair or otherwise ), complex sexual issues, breakdown of communication, loss of trust, living with addictions, living with a narcissist, empty nest and retirement impact, existential and midlife crisis, disability and health issues, and many more.

Banstead, Sanderstead, Leatherhead, Epsom and Coulsdon

I fell into counselling after working for over 20 years with adults and children in the dental industry.

From personal experience, I understand how life’s challenges can affect our mental health and I am able to empathise with my clients if they are experiencing difficult thoughts and feelings to both my individual clients and my couples.

Coming to counselling can help you make decisions on how you want to progress with your relationship.  Couples that seek counselling realise that there is a problem and may have asked friends or family for advice but solutions arise from a series of counselling sessions between the individuals exploring the nature of the problem and understanding the dynamics and experimenting with possible solutions.

I know that coming to counselling can sometimes feel quite daunting.  I can offer you the time and space to help you process difficult feelings, thought’s and experiences in a safe and calm environment. I am passionate about providing a place that is confidential and safe, in a non judgmental way.

• I am a qualified integrative counsellor.  (Integrative means different approaches based on client needs).
• I am a member of the BACP (British Association for Counselling and Pyschotherapy).
• I can offer you the time and space to reflect on difficult feelings.  I offer empathy and congruence.

Bagshot, Egham, Walton-on-Thames, Esher, Sunningdale and Ascot 

I am an experienced individual and couple counsellor, working with both adults and young adults over the age of 16.

Many of us have times when things can feel out of control, or we feel particularly low or overwhelmed in our lives. During these times we sometimes struggle to find the right direction or purpose.

Counselling can enable you to talk about difficult situations and feelings with a trained practitioner. It is a process that can help you to explore your thoughts and emotions and gain self-awareness. Knowing ourselves at a deeper level can enable us to make better decisions in life.

Good therapy is collaboration between the therapist and clients. It’s not about being told what to do by the therapist; it’s about working together to see the bigger picture of your life in order to put it back together in a way that is right for you.

I work with a broad spectrum of issues but specialise in couples counselling and trauma. I have numerous years of experience working for a charity supporting clients who have been impacted by rape, sexual abuse, sexual violence and childhood sexual abuse.

Weybridge, Bracknell, Wokingham, Sandhurst, Farnborough, Aldershot and London

I am a psychotherapist and cognitive behavioural therapist with a private practice in Surrey KT13 and London SW1. I work both face-to-face and also worldwide vie internet platforms, including Zoom, Skype, and telephone.

I specialise in using a combination of approaches to talk therapy, which includes cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), transactional, emotional freedom techniques to help regulate emotional distress like anxiety, solution-focused, psychodynamic, and person-centred. I work with couples, teenagers, and adults.

I have worked in different sectors, including mental health services, drug and alcohol services, juvenile prison, offending youth service, GP’s, and Early Intervention in psychosis service. I offer short-term and open-ended therapy, and always tailor my approach to each individual because we all have different needs.

Cranleigh, Dorking, Horley and Godalming

I am an experienced therapist with 20 years experience.  I will provide you with a safe space to discuss your issues openly and without judgement.   I will ensure that each party has the opportunity to talk, and be heard,  without interruption about how they feel in their relationship and how it impacts them generally.  By communicating in this way you will gain a better understanding about what is happening in your relationship and then together we can look at ways of moving forward .  With good understanding through talking and listening you can make the right decisions, about your relationship, for you.

I will give you strategies and tools to help you work on your relationship in between our sessions and I will keep a safe and confidential space to discuss the outcomes.

Online Counselling 

As a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist and a BACP accredited psychotherapist with over 12 years experience I work with couples to understand the causes of their difficulties and rebuild love and connection in their relationships

Couples often experience a breakdown of communication, which causes a fight or flight reaction. These may become repetitive cycles of self-destructive behaviour, where anger expressed spins out of control. A loss of emotional closeness, trust and physical intimacy follows, which can lead to crises in the relationship, affairs and the threat of divorce.

Together we explore what you need, why there is disconnection and how you can achieve the relationship you want. A key to this is building open and calm communication in order to understand each other, resolve conflict and meet each other’s needs. We also focus on building greater appreciation, care and fun in order to reignite love and connection in the relationship.